A Letter About My Son


In 1n response to John Mosqueda’s editorial which appeared in the June 6, 1999 REVIEW JOURNAL, I don’t know whether to agree with Rev. Mosqueda or to shake my finger and say shame on you. Granted I do not know all of the details of the Columbine shootings except to say that I have a son who is not unlike Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold. Evil or not, there are services in place to protect us from the behaviors of those youngsters, but finding those services and getting the responsible parties to help is an act in futility.

My son, a high school sophomore, has had many years of intervention including therapy, medication and hospital stays; all in an effort to salvage this otherwise bright and witty young man. Unfortunately, the results of short term care or outpatient care were short lived. Two years ago my son’s mother sent him to live with myself and my wife because his mother felt that our lifestyle would offer better supervision and have a positive influence on his unmanageable behaviors. We agreed. We laid down a structure of parental supervision (my wife left her job), clear rules, responsibilities, accountability, consequences and rewards. Until nine months ago he was making friends, excelling in school, attending church, and was engaged in community service. Then all hell broke loose.

The behaviors that caused him to leave his mothers house were that he was brutal to his sisters, was habitual liar, a thief, and had assaulted his classmates. The latter two resulted in a short stay in juvenile hall in Florida. Those same behaviors reared their ugly heads with us. Since then, we have sought the help of clergy, psychiatrists, psychologists, and my son has been hospitalized four times. The first hospitalization was at Charter Hospital for attempted suicide, plans that he had made to commit a homicide with a gun, self mutilation, and the discovery that he is obsessed with death and dismemberment. Only three weeks after his release from Charter, he was hospitalized a second time at Charter for attempted suicide and self mutilation and his obsession with death and dismemberment. Both times he was released by Charter Hospital as no longer being a threat to himself or others.

Clearly Charter was wrong. My son was still a threat to himself and others. We found Olympus View Hospital, in Salt Lake City, which had a program for youths such as my son. Two months into his treatment, we discovered that our insurance carrier would fund only one of those months. Though his treatment was not complete, we ran out of assets and our insurance company had cut off all funding for his treatment. Though Olympus View cautioned that he is still dangerous, my son was discharged to myself and my wife, before he could be fully stabilized.

Olympus View Hospital discovered that our son is paranoid schizophrenic and is indeed a danger to himself and to those around him. In spite of our best efforts, our worst fears were borne out on May 28, 1999 when my son assaulted my wife with a butcher knife he had taken from the kitchen, in an attempted homicide. The L.V. Metro offered to take my son into custody for prosecution or have him admitted for psychiatric evaluation. We chose to have him evaluated. He was later admitted to Desert Willow Hospital, a State fun psychiatric hospital here in Las Vegas.

Desert Willow offers both short and long term psychiatric care and they have the beds and funding available to provide service for my son. We hoped that Desert Willow would provide the help that my son desperately needs through their long term program, something that the criminal system does not provide. In spite of his history of assaults, self mutilation, obsession with death and dismemberment, unpredictable behavior, that short term hospitalization and out patient services are ineffective, and the availability of long term help for him at Desert Willow, the psychiatric staff at Desert Willow is determined to discharge this young man on June 8, 1999. The staff at Desert Willow contends that my son is stable and that he poses no threat to himself or others.

We contacted L.V. Metro for help in keeping this young man off our streets until he gets help. We were informed that it is not likely that any judge will hear the criminal case against my son because he is on medication for schizophrenia.

The result is that Desert Willow Hospital plans to release an unstable young man, not unlike Eric Harris, and Dyland Klebold, into our community. Whether my son is evil or not, Desert Willow operates the very facilities and has the funding that could help this troubled young man acquire the skills that he needs to lead a productive life. Unfortunately, this young man has been refused.

It has been said that the massacre at Columbine High School could have been avoided had the parents of Eric Harris and Dyland Klebold sought intervention for their sons. Perhaps they did and were refused.

Charles A. Durning

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